I remember when I was growing up, years ago, there was a TV show called “Truth or Consequences” The theme was that if a contestant couldn’t answer a question with the truth,,, there would be consequences. I also have a friend that grew up in Truth or Consequences New Mexico. Does that sound like a western town??

Anyhow my experience in life has been that, if you don’t tell or live by the truth,,, there will always be consequences down the road,, pretty much for sure.  It is true in this life and will be true in eternity. John 14:6 says (KJV) : “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life:no man cometh unto the Father, but by me”.

If we choose to live by, believe and accept the truth of Jesus in this present life, we will be with him in eternity,,, if not,,, there will be the consequences of eternity separated from him,,,,,, Hell. The truth is always the best way !!!

Just an observation here taken from personal experience and living decades with Expats away from home.

We leave our homes and families to take jobs far away to make money (chasing money) hoping/wanting to give our families a better life. This seems like a noble cause for sure. After all that is what we are suppose to do,,, provide for our families to make life better for them. Well be aware that there are a lot of pit falls and temptations with this life style that, a lot of times, ends up just the opposite of what we originally planned.

There is an old saying “Time heals All” well I would like to add that “Time Deadens All” Long absences from your family will eventually have a detrimental  effect, especially if you are going to a Target Rich Environment. (Lots of Temptation Surrounding You) What started as a noble cause to save or improve the family,,, lots of times results in a loss of family.

What can you do if you have to proceed down this path apart ??? Well I think the first thing is to pray about it, and wait for the answer,,, not the answer you may may want,,, but the answer. Of course you have to believe for that to work. The next thing is to stay in contact,,, communicate with your loved ones. I have noted that there is always a slowing of the communication process if you are getting sucked into some temptation.

But the best way to help avoid this trap,,, is to stay together !!! Take your family with you if you have to go,,, it may not be the easiest way,,, but it is, for sure, the best way. This is why I now firmly believe that if you want to “Stay Together” you have to “Be Together” !!

Think of Life as a set of stairs leading to heaven,,, each step has its trials and rewards. You have to pass through them all to get to the next step. You have to have the Lords help to continue up,,, without the Lord, you will think you are going up,,, but you are actually going down ???

Having grown up on a farm,,, I am real familiar with Flies. You know the big black ones that are always bugging you and buzzing around.  My dad always had some milk cows so we had a little milk barn where we milked the cows,,, morning and night. Well with cows, mud, milk and manure,, there were always a bunch of flies,,, everywhere. Also we sold milk by the gallon jar back then so lots of gallon jars around and always a few in the barn windows. Everyday I would walk by some of those open topped gallon jars and see flies banging around in them.  Those Flies would bang their heads against an invisable wall until most died in the jar. I always wondered why they didn’t just fly out the top of the jar ??? They could see the whole world outside the jar but never changed their actions to survive,,,, I mean all they had to do is back off, look up and fly out to freedom!!! Some did just that ,,, but they were very few.

Does this ring a bell,,, We go around restricted by the world’s jar, knowing deep inside, that this is not what we need, want or desire,, but we just keep banging our heads against that invisible worldly wall,,,  never finding that peace and contentment we long for.

So what do we need to do,,,, just back off, look up, accept the free gift from Jesus and fly out to freedom.